PARTNER BETRAYAL TRAUMA
PARTNER BETRAYAL TRAUMA
At the core of betrayal is the sense of loss: Loss of the relationship you once enjoyed, loss of a partner and friend, loss of the future that you may have envisioned with your partner. The complexity of your relationship has changed immensely. It feels much different to be the betrayer than the betrayed so for this reason, it's important that you know that what you are feeling is valid. The trauma that you are experiencing is real. Know that nothing you did drove your partner to take this action.
You may feel out of control upon finding out what has happened and this feeling may go on for some time, however, the fact that you are here and interested in learning more and getting help is important. Your feelings may be confusing, for instance, you may feel very vulnerable at the moment, yet wonder where to turn because the person you depended upon when feeling vulnerable is the very person who betrayed you. We understand these complexities and can help you process what has happened and help uncover the best road for you.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
I feel betrayed beyond belief. I had no idea this was coming and can't even imagine what our relationship can look like. How can I get over this?
Learning that you've been betrayed is traumatic. And, it's a process to try to and rebuild your relationship once again. Recovery and healing takes work, whether you're seeking therapy as a couple or on your own, as an individual.
HOW WE CAN HELP
Sexual addiction is a complex addiction but there is hope! As a trained Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I (Karen Kinder, LCPC, LMHC, CSAT) have completed training developed by Dr. Patrick Carnes which required attendance at multiple training modules and supervision with a CSAT Supervisor. It also requires ongoing education so that ASATs/CSATs such as myself are experts in providing sexual addiction therapy. It is a rigorous process designed to help me best help you.
Learn more about treatment for sex addiction including an initial (free) sexual addiction screening assessment; please visit SexHelp.com. IF you are a partner, take the Partner Sexuality Survey.
We empathize greatly with what has led you here today. The pain of learning that your partner has betrayed your trust cannot be underestimated. For recovery to begin, we address several key issues, the first of which is to clarify whether your marriage can be saved. Confusion as to your next move can be overwhelming, however, we want to assure you that we offer a safe, non-judgmental space for you to share your ambivalence and concerns.
HOW TO GET STARTED
Please give us a call today at (217) 345-4642 or contact us via the form below so that see how we can best be of help. We look forward to hearing from you.